Change is pertinent, accept it!

Day3-8th Dec 2013

"A very emotional and delicate journey of two souls who come together to make a difference in each other's lives by accepting who and how they are is what makes a marriage."

There is a cliche in the above statement.  Marriage experts tell us to accept our life partner as he/she is without expecting him/her to change. Accept and go on and you will be the most satisfying spouse in the whole wide world. I disagree to it to a certain extent. In such way we are surviving and not living with our better half. There is no scope of growth, spontaneity, and disagreement. When a new person enters in our existing world, we change just like a river. It faces rocks, floods, and has to go through several geographical barriers but keeps on flowing by even branching out. Change is pertinent and makes us stronger individuals who can stand by each other in times of adversity because we develop better understanding and get to soak in our partner's needs, values and beliefs.

 We are brought up in two different environments and when get together take the best and worst, form opinions and go by the flow to make our marriage work. I change for him so does he. That is how we give a boost to our relationship by celebrating our successes and standing strong like a rock during times of failure.

-a lucky wife :)